The instance of Free Will
Perhaps the most difficult case to manage, when s man suffers the lack of free will, is redeeming of karma. Let’s go at this example:
An adult son suffers the bossiness of his father, who decides about everything instead of his son, he ties him down, sometimes violently, too. The misunderstandings and quarrels appear every day. Because the son is the younger one and psychically more moveable, he should be the first one to understand the cause of this restriction. He shouldn’t always ask the father to change, but to try to understand, why the father behaves in this way.
First of all he should realize, he was born to his father according to the Law of Reciprocal Action. It means, he behaved to the father in the past similarly. The fact, the son is burdened with behaviour of his father means, that the son is equal to his father. Otherwise, the father’s behaviour wouldn’t interrupt him. The same negative characteristics are repelled. This understanding may change the son’s attitude to his father and remove the karmic barrier. There will wake up the free will in the son, which the father starts to respect.
If the father understands the cause of the problems as the first one, the son will change at the same time. Both are connected with karma and either they support or oppress each other.
If the son doesn’t change and wants the father to change, he will carry his negatives to the upbringing of his own children. Some or all of them will fight back against his violent character, too, and express the aversion towards him. In this way, he gets another chance to realize he is really the same as his father, and first of all, he should look at himself.
Another cause of father’s bossiness may be the opposite, that the son is too weak, that he has never expressed his own wanting, what has supported the multiplying of father’s will. If the son shows he has the will in the right place, the harmony- the mutual balance appears.